A Message From Our President – Chris Lee

Be in charge of you!

In today’s world, which is rife with negative news, pessimistic individuals, and constant social media updates, it’s incredibly easy to be influenced by another person or a situation, particularly in the heat of the moment when it feels almost inevitable.

While this perspective may not be widely accepted nowadays, it’s important to understand that no one has the power to control your emotions unless you allow them to. No situation can force you to feel enraged, sad, or frightened unless you permit it. 

Take a moment to absorb this: You are in charge of how you feel; no one else holds that power over you.

My Aunt and I discussed this the other day, and I thought about how we manage our team and speak with our clients.

Why do we often allow others to influence our core emotions when we cannot control their actions or words? I believe it is because, in those heated moments, we often fail to pause and comprehend what is happening to us and why. Instead, we surrender to the influence of others. The world is filled with individuals, media, propagandists (yes, even the media), and influencers who profit from manipulating our emotions. However, they can only succeed if you grant them permission; they thrive by capitalizing on your misery. It’s time to stop enabling them!

I’m not suggesting that it’s wrong to experience anger, sadness, or any other emotion; rather, it’s crucial to recognize that you have the power to choose how you feel. The next time you find yourself triggered or enraged by someone else’s actions, take a moment to reflect on who truly controls your emotions. Reclaiming ownership of your feelings will undoubtedly lead to a happier and more internally peaceful life—should you decide to do so.

Chris